This is laughable. You don't "own" a person. I don't control what my fiance does.
If she wants to hold hands with someone, why should I care? I trust her, I'm the one she chose to marry.
That's the mature attitude to hold, not some alpha-male posturing.
Obviously you don't own anyone, but knowing that you are theirs and and theirs alone is a great feeling. You're beta, the type of guy that will just let another man walk all over him. Unless of course you sit behind a keyboard, and act tough, then all of the sudden you're a champion but I could never see you doing such a thing.
If you don't get jealous and/or concerned, you don't really care about the bond between you and the other person.
Edited by Adam, 27 February 2013 - 12:19 PM.